Don't let genital herpes keeping you from dating. It might be better to break the news about herpes to someone who has already grown. What I Decided To Do When He Told Me He Had Genital Herpes. I wasn’t prepared when he suddenly dropped a bomb on me: He had genital herpes. He told me I could take as much time as I needed to feel comfortable having sex with him.

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It's the chance of giving the girl the virus even knowing the small risk if cautious. It’s a sort of naive view of biology combined with a very old visceral fear which is natural to have, but I don’t think it’s bigotry. It’s human nature to think it, and to wonder, and to actively make the decision.

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Did she begin by saying that 75% of people have it?Does herpes have a cure?Ella Dawson is a rowdy millennial who cares too much about The Bachelor.

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I recently started dating someone and he told me (before sex) that he had genital herpes. I remember there were many replies that said they had been with their husband with herpes for years and through medication and avoiding sex when he can feel a breakout happening, they had never actually caught it from them. I tell people all the time: Herpes makes a GREAT Wingman. I think the important thing is if u know u have it, NOT to have sex with her unless she knows.

I’d call that a big deal. I’d say it’s even safer with antivirals. I’m not saying you don’t have ~enough herpes~ to talk about this subject, because that’s bullshit.

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I did notice "TMI" my ex dug at his scrotum alot. I don't mean to add to the stigma. I feel like it was miraculous that I never got it because I know I slept with people who had it. I got herpes from my first and only partner of three years, I waited until I was 25 years old to have sex, I asked my partner to get tested before we were together and his tests came out negative for STDs I was responsible and still got herpes.

We’ve been talking every day and I can’t believe I never got to know him better. What if you tell her and she tells all her friends and your brother? When it comes to any kind of STD, you have to let a potential partner know. When you strip the emotion from it, it basically reads "would you ever like open boils on your dick? While I agree with your friend that a lot of people are living with a very manageable disease, she was way out of line for yelling at you.

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Because last time this question was asked everyone made a big deal out of it. But I’m always amazed by what many people think herpes is, with some even thinking it’s a life-threatening, “flesh-eating” disease.But, about the STD herpes (I don't have it, fyi the two come from different viruses), no way, man, I'm with you on this one, I would never date anyone with STD herpes, if it is bad on the mouth, can you imagine on your penis?Comment Disclaimer: Comments that contain profane or derogatory language, video links or exceed 200 words will require approval by a moderator before appearing in the comment section.

The guys who would not see beyond this and care for you anyway, in fact, appreciate what it says about who you are as a responsible woman, aren’t the guys you want anyway. The one thing I’ve noticed is if you can find someone to accept you, that oral sex is out of the question for a woman. There are STD that are eliminated taking antibiotics, but not herpes. These guys were world class jerks to begin with. This is the reason I know so much.

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You are withholding information that pertains to and could compromise his health and well-being. You inability to put yourself in others shoes, says you have no business judging me or commenting. You’re a normal person who just happens to have herpes.

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I was in a relationship with a man for 5 years. I would recommend to tell her before you have sex though! If you don't have an STD, then GTFOH! Imagine a room full of 25 women. In fact it probably contributed to my relationship ending in December 2016.

I have always been careful and respectful of my partners. I have no need for validation, just want to go on record in saying that changing your approach I guarentee you could help so many more. I have only had sex with one person, and I have herpes. I have rare neurological condition for which there is no treatment. I know it must be tough to take the risk when you have no guarantee that it will be anything permanent.

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  2. All you have to do is say I told the other person Before hand and it’s your word vs his it goes nowhere!
  3. I guessI just feel uncomfortable with calling it bigotry, provided it isn’t coupled with misogyny or slut-shaming or whatever other garbage, and doesn’t involve treating the person badly. I had found my ex on several online dating porn sites, he traveled ALOT for his job. I have a partner who won’t go down on me because that’s something that makes him nervous, and that’s valid and I respect it and we have great penetrative sex using condoms.

    1. Also on the oral front, it sounds like that should be pretty safe both ways, yes?
    2. Always tell your partner(s) about herpes BEFORE you have any sexual contact with them.
    3. And while it’s not quite “Please pass the salt”, you can probably cover what you need to cover in just a few minutes, as opposed to a two-hour herpes summit.
    4. Basically, people started fucking more and since herpes can spread through skin to skin contact condoms and the like doesn't help as much.
    5. Special emphasis i s given to working with inactive teens, teen girls, and teen moms. Talk via PM or start a new thread. Tell her what its like, your experience with it, statistics, what you know. That in and of itself is a good reason not to be okay with dating someone with herpes. That's not sex positive, that's sex retarded. The drug company that had just patented a treatment. The f%&ked up part is they were about to do the deed and she did not say anything.

      Even worse, I couldn’t blame him if he did leave. Feminists these days, am I right?

      Keep that in mind for your future sexual decisions. LOL I guess your friend just wants everybody to be sex HSV2 positive! Most of my partners were very grateful to hear what they would be exposed to, and there were no adverse side effects. My advice sorry to say is to run fast, most relationships dont last forever, herpes will, I have no clue where to go from here, I cannot fathom hurting another human like this, I have been devaststed. Now having herpes is a medical condition and personal.

      1. A man who has a treatable and contained virus (that 1/5n people have) is no reason to walk away.
      2. ALSO, just because you are responsible, doesn't mean everyone else is.
      3. Good Luck sweetie, if you’re fortunate to always have your partner tell you! Have you gotten tested as well? He just wants to feel 100% certain you’re comfortable with it. Herpes is not a joke and it is not fun for a partner to find out that her/his partner has it. Hope all is well w you ans your girl and your anxiety hasn't been getting the best of you. Hopefully they have a blood test.

        In the grand scheme of relationships, herpes is a "little skin condition". Is it wrong that I got a chuckle from this? It is less of a nuisance IME than psoriasis, port wine stains, plantar’s warts and a host of other skin diseases. It only takes 1 person to spread it if not treated. It will come out at times of stress, most of the time no symptoms.

        Today, we know enough to understand it isn’t just reckless, irresponsible, ignorant individuals who pick up STD’s—we can all be at risk sometimes, even when we take precautions. Typically it is HSV-1 but HSV-2 is pretty common as well for wrestler's herpes. We have sent a confirmation email to {* emailAddressData *}.

        So many people have HPV that the odds of catching it from someone who knows they have it is the same as from someone who doesn't: basically 100% if you've ever had sex with a nonvirgin. So the message is “I want to wait, because I want to build a stronger connection with you first”. So, to the aware individual who has done her homework on the Herpes virus, you are no more "dirty" or "damaged goods" if you have HSV2 instead of HSV1.

        Okay, so you think your partner is worth it. One girl said she wanted to find out more about it, and I never heard from her again. Perhaps you have some issues you are dealing with. Please get over your self sir. She only saw the negatives and downfalls. She wasn't setting you up, she was setting her up.

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